I am a freaking plumbing goddess. Yesterday I decided to take pity on my support group and shower before I went. I hoped in the shower and there was no water pressure and what water there was was very hot. After a less than pleasant shower and a not so bad support group meeting I cam home and D.G. and I took apart our shower diverter valve. Somehow I remembered how to take the thing apart from the last time we did it over a year ago. It was the same problem as last time too, some weird white plastic stuff clogging the cold water inlet. We had it all fixed up in about half an hour.
If I can understand how to take apart a diverter valve and unclog it, why can't I understand my own "plumbing" and figure out how to make it work the way it's supposed to? FF finally gave me some crosshairs so now I just have to wait and see if I get a BFP or a tattoo for Christmas this year.