tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post7164292857988776726..comments2023-04-06T04:06:41.823-06:00Comments on Hello Goodbye: It's just not getting bettercarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11393089450621191821noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-38088032351061247192011-01-08T20:39:20.835-07:002011-01-08T20:39:20.835-07:00It has been a year in half since I lost my daughte...It has been a year in half since I lost my daughter, and I was just writting a new blog today about the REALLY bad day I had. The one thing I have learned is that it is ok, dont ever put a time limit on how long you should hurt or be in a "funk". It will come and go. Yes, time will make somedays easier, but you will always miss your child and you will always long to have them back and no one can or should take that from you! I know how hard it is to be around people, and the feeling to just want to run away! Im glas I found your blog and I will be praying for you! Amy...Amy von Ovenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08623909258148744922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-72559395815475435912011-01-08T15:38:25.085-07:002011-01-08T15:38:25.085-07:00Merry, I don't remember having any PPD issues ...Merry, I don't remember having any PPD issues after D was born, but that's not to say that it couldn't be happening this time. I definitely didn't go through a seriously anti-social phase like I am now.carhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11393089450621191821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-83923964920167424892011-01-08T12:34:52.197-07:002011-01-08T12:34:52.197-07:00As a fellow numbers geek . . .draw the graph! I dr...As a fellow numbers geek . . .draw the graph! I drew a graph on my blog once, don't let me be the only one. I'm all about the visual aids. <br /><br />You make perfect sense to me. Its good that the lows are no longer as low as they once were.<br /><br />I think I'd probably quite happy to spend most of my time on my own too. Constantly having to pretend that everything is fine can be quite draining. xCatherine Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-47414510337851743372011-01-08T09:30:10.650-07:002011-01-08T09:30:10.650-07:00Cara, how were you nine months out from D's bi...Cara, how were you nine months out from D's birth? I've realised this week that I'm having a normal 9 month hormonal slump, less to do with Freddie's death and more to do with having given birth nine months ago. Could it be something similar?<br /><br />God, I wish this could get better.Merryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06338478486624362745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-25104039496366445212011-01-08T08:12:47.134-07:002011-01-08T08:12:47.134-07:00It's been over two years here and I still have...It's been over two years here and I still have those days. Any sort of progress is still progress though, right?Rochellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09226024184305999010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-36365700620624321982011-01-08T04:46:02.821-07:002011-01-08T04:46:02.821-07:00It's a slow road we're all on. I think it ...It's a slow road we're all on. I think it is a positive thing that your lows are not as low as they once were. It's progress. <br /><br />Be patient with yourself. I also believe in the fake it before you make it theory. We just have to fake it for a while longer.My New Normalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03482513767849843084noreply@blogger.com