tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post573915454329572854..comments2023-04-06T04:06:41.823-06:00Comments on Hello Goodbye: I don't need this crapcarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11393089450621191821noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-68244991730790913392011-06-28T22:17:17.948-06:002011-06-28T22:17:17.948-06:00Oh man. I can sympathise more than I can even expr...Oh man. I can sympathise more than I can even express. Replace your brother with my partner's sister and you have the same situation, with her constantly expected to be the bigger person when it is her sister that is wildly unreasonable.<br />The only difference is that while your brother wont acknowledge Reid, my SIL told us that we are awful people because we didn't support HER enough when our son died! (I know, right?) But hey, both self centred, both sound a little loopy.<br /><br />I'm so sorry you are dealing with the same thing, it is just the worst.Suzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10979257233557088253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-60702711063946596692011-05-30T23:06:12.323-06:002011-05-30T23:06:12.323-06:00I feel sorry for D and the missed opportunity, but...I feel sorry for D and the missed opportunity, but I would almost feel delighted to spend the weekend in a hotel. Minus the cost of course, but you could pick and choose how much interaction you get. I hope the weekend isn't a total suck for you. love and strength your way~Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17215595176820577303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-88370987447754031882011-05-29T23:18:48.963-06:002011-05-29T23:18:48.963-06:00So sorry Car.. family shit is the worst.. especial...So sorry Car.. family shit is the worst.. especially when we think we can count on those with whom we share so much history.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-9856485525015400252011-05-29T09:01:49.920-06:002011-05-29T09:01:49.920-06:00Sorry girl :( Family drama is the worst.Sorry girl :( Family drama is the worst.Glohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07501457280483176930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1905396975810102836.post-4827565085989906432011-05-29T06:39:47.716-06:002011-05-29T06:39:47.716-06:00I read it all. I wish I had something more helpful...I read it all. I wish I had something more helpful to say than that your brother sounds mean :(<br /><br />It sounds like you're doing the only thing you can - act like an adult, pick your times to deal with him when you're feeling strong and not too emotional, and generally be the bigger person for your mum's sake. But it sucks that you have to.<br /><br />As for explaining to D why you aren't staying with them, if you just tell her you're staying with/at x and all the reasons why that's exciting, hopefully she won't ask for too much in the way of explanations. <br /><br />I'm sorry you've got to put up with this crap :(Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12523875341438470968noreply@blogger.com